Sexual Assault: What can you do???
Sexual Assault: What can you do?
Some of the latest statistics indicate that 1 in 4 women
experience sexual assault while in college. This is a relatively large
percentage of cases reported. You can imagine how many sexual assaults are unreported.
The number of sexual assault cases are becoming more publicized on college
campuses. Because of these high numbers, colleges have implemented a number of programs
to prevent sexual assault.
Believe it or not, we can prevent some of these situations
from occurring. We can do so by becoming an active bystander. Prevention
Awareness Uniting Students with Empowerment (PAUSE) is a CSULB program aimed at
encouraging students to intervene to prevent sexual assault from taking place.
Many times students do not intervene because they are unsure
what to do or expect someone else to intervene; hence, your top priority should
be your safety. There are three different methods students can perform: direct,
delegate, and distract. These are known as the 3 D’s.
Direct: Encourages students to directly communicate with all
parties involved. Let’s say you see a guy put a pill in a girls drink, you can
exercise the direct method by saying, “Hey, I just saw you put something in her
drink!”
Delegate: Assign tasks to parties involved and other
bystanders as well. For example, you see
a guy getting aggressively intimate with an obviously drunk girl at a bar. You
can tell the bouncer to get him away from her. Or let’s say you are at a party
and your friend is passed out and there is vomit on the ground next to her. You
would call 9-1-1 to get her medical help right away.
Distract: You can choose to either distract the perpetrator
or the potential victim. An example would be that you are at a party and your
friend is being encouraged to drink shot after shot by a guy you know has been
into her for a while. However, your friend has told you she doesn’t feel the
same way but thinks they can be friends. You decide to distract the situation by
grabbing your friend away and saying that you need her to go with you to
another party down the street.
We can all come together to make campus safe for everyone
just by speaking up, doing something, or even calling for medical/police
assistance. If someone was trying to harm someone we knew, we would want
someone…anyone to intervene and help them. And all its takes is recognizing
there’s a problem and taking action.
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